| SERMON #177 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto
your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them
that ask him? MAT 7:11.
The central topic of our text is good gifts. What are good gifts? We want to see what
the good gifts are that our heavenly Father has in store for those who love Him. Good
gifts are not always pleasant to the flesh. The Father knows what we need; our heavenly
Father looks upon our eternal and spiritual welfare. There is often a great distinction
between that which is good for us and that which is pleasant. Why? It is because our
hearts have become corrupt, and by reason of our shameful fall in Adam, we have pleasure
in sin and things that are not for our spiritual welfare. So the Lord gives us good gifts,
those things which are spiritually and eternally good.
Good gifts include corrective medicine. For young children most corrective medications
are flavored to cover their true taste. The Lord does not put any synthetic flavoring in
His medications. As caring parents, we must insist on the child taking certain medications
for their good. If a little child has an ear infection, you give the child a medication
that will combat that infection. The child may not like the taste of it; they may fight it
or spit it out, but the parent knows better than the child what is good for him.
Therefore, the child must take the medication, even though it does not seem pleasant at
the time.
Even so the Lord often uses medications which seem very bitter to the flesh to restore
our spiritual health. Think of David and how he became defiled with adultery and murder.
Spiritually he had departed from the Lord; he had gone into sin. It was a grievous place,
and the medicine the Lord used to show David the sinfulness of his sin was the adultery
and murder in his children which were used by the Lord to cure him of his lust. The Lord
taught him the sinfulness of his sin when he saw that same sin in his children.
From a father's perspective David could see the grievousness of adultery in his
children even as his heavenly Father looked upon him in this same sin. David's son defiled
his own sister. David saw murder in his children when his son murdered his own brother
Amon. Oh, how grievous it was for David when his son, Absalom, committed adultery with his
concubines upon the house top before all Israel.
Now from a father's perspective, see how David saw the bitterness of sin. See the kind
of medicine the Lord used to take away the pleasure of sin in David's life. The pleasure
of adultery was far removed when he cried out, "O my son Absalom, my son, my son
Absalom! would God I had died for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!" 2SA 18:33b. Think
of the grief of David when Absalom was slain. David realized all the things that had taken
place with Absalom were the fruits of his own sin. That is the medicine the Lord used to
cure David's lust and stop him from cherishing sin.
Think of Jacob, who sinned by cheating, lying, and being deceitful, and the medicine
the Lord used to cure him. The final dose of medicine he needed to have for his deceit
came when his children told him Joseph was yet alive. Then Jacob could see from a father's
perspective how his children had deceived him with a kid of the goats and with their
brother's coat as he had deceived his father with his brother's coat. Now he saw the
sinfulness and grief that his heavenly Father had from his grievous sin.
So often God's good gifts are mistaken because we are shortsighted. Think of Jacob when
he let Benjamin go. Jacob said, "... Me have ye bereaved of my children: Joseph is
not, and Simeon is not, and ye will take Benjamin away: all these things are against
me," GEN 42:36.
Jacob was so shortsighted that he was not able to remember what the Lord had told
Abraham, his father in GEN 15:13-14, "Know of a surety that thy seed shall be a
stranger in a land that is not theirs, and shall serve them; and they shall afflict them
four hundred years; And also that nation, whom they shall serve, will I judge: and
afterward shall they come out with great substance."
Jacob was so shortsighted that he never understood how the Lord was bringing about the
very thing that He had told his father Abram. Also, the Lord was using this to teach Jacob
the bitterness of deceit. Think of David's grief when Absalom was slain. Think of the
grief of Jacob's heart when he had to give up Benjamin. Jacob said "all these things
are against me, Joseph is not, and Simeon is not, and ye will take Benjamin away." He
didn't know Joseph was the ruler of Egypt; he didn't realize it was a good gift that was
coming from the Lord through Joseph. He was so shortsighted.
"Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous:
nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which
are exercised thereby," HEB 12:11. Good gifts are sometimes grievous to the flesh
rather than joyous; nevertheless, afterwards we find a great reward. Think of the joy of
Jacob's heart when he was able to embrace Joseph. Afterwards it yielded the peaceable
fruits of righteousness. After Jacob's heart had been cleansed, and the Lord had worked
His purpose in Jacob's life, Jacob was able to embrace Simeon, Joseph, and Benjamin. The
Lord used it all for good. Those are peaceable fruits of righteousness.
In my own life I have seen my sins passed down to my own children. Those same sins eat
like a cancer, attempting to destroy them. Now I see how grievous that sin is from a
father's perspective. That is what the Lord is teaching us in our text, "If ye then,
being evil..." can see how grievous sin is, then how much more grievous it is to our
holy Father. Think how sin grieves Him.
Therefore, the Lord uses corrective medicine. How? He does it by allowing us to see the
same sins in our children. That is not always pleasant, but it is very good for our
spiritual welfare because it weans us from the things of sin. It weans us from
covetousness, lusts, and things so displeasing to the Lord. "Now no chastening for
the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the
peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby," HEB 12:11.
The Lord uses these corrective medicines to cleanse our heart so it will no longer cleave
to those things which are displeasing to Him.
Giving good gifts unto our children, even though our hearts are evil, includes
corrective discipline. Consider the good gifts we must give our children. The first and
most important gift we can give our children is a Godly upbringing to teach them the fear
of the Lord. EPH 6:4 says, "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but
bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord."
If you go back into the original, the word nurture means "discipline,
self-discipline; to train the children's thinking based upon God's Word." It is such
a blessing when a child has received from his natural father a training of character:
Godly principles and self-discipline in the admonition of the Lord. Parents must admonish
them of how the Lord disciplined David and Jacob. They must remind them of how grievous it
is to sin against the Lord. A Godly upbringing is the greatest gift a parent can give his
child.
Fathers and mothers who love their children know they must nurture their children in
the admonition of the Lord so His blessings may rest upon them. Until we understand the
nurture in the admonition of the Lord, we may not expect His blessing. He will not pour
out His blessings upon unrepentant sinners. The Lord does not bestow spiritual blessings
in the soul of a man that has never learned self-discipline.
See what we read in SON 2:2, "As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the
daughters." When the love of Christ is planted in the soul, like a lily among thorns
of wickedness and sin, those thorns must be weeded out or they will choke out the love of
Christ which is likened unto that lily. This is what Jesus said about His gospel in MAT
13:7-8, "And some fell among thorns; and the thorns sprung up, and choked them [but
where there is repentance in the heart, the thorns are weeded out. Then He likens that
heart unto a well-prepared garden.]: But other fell into good ground, and brought forth
fruit, some an hundredfold, some sixtyfold, some thirtyfold."
Scripture has so much to teach us about how we must train our children so they may
receive the blessings of God. GEN 18:18-19 says, "Seeing that Abraham shall surely
become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in
him? [Now watch the conditions upon which God may grant such a blessing!] For I know him,
that he will command his children and his household after him, and they shall keep the way
of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring upon
Abraham that which he hath spoken of him." The Lord will not put His blessing
upon a rebellious heart. The Lord's delight is in the love His people have under the law
of love.
The whole law and gospel hang upon two commandments, "Jesus said unto him, Thou
shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy
mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt
love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the
prophets," MAT 22:37-40.
Everything that comes against these commandments must be weeded out in the child's
upbringing. It is done in the loving training and nurture of a father which is the good
gift we can give our children. Now consider how much more our heavenly Father gives in His
good gifts. "For I know him, that he will command his children" shows us the
responsibility we have to our children and household. How negligent we are. We must see
how guilty we are if we neglect the nurturing of our children in the admonition of the
Lord. Clearing out the thorns must be done before the Lord's blessing will come upon them.
PRO 23:13-14 says one of the greatest gifts parents can give their child is a Godly
upbringing; "Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the
rod, he shall not die. [That is not child abuse.] Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and
shalt deliver his soul from hell." This rod of correction does not necessarily mean
to literally beat them, but it means to use disciplinary measures that will break their
rebellion. Discipline is the good gift we can bestow upon our children. We must correct,
admonish, and nurture them in a Godly way that their souls may be delivered from hell.
Those who think they are showing love by sparing the rod do not understand the wisdom
God teaches in His Word. "He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth
him chasteneth him betimes," PRO 13:24.
Is that today's philosophy? No! That is why we see so much wickedness abounding in the
world today. Instead of children having their thinking trained in God's Word, they are
trained with violence, lust, and murder in the TV programs which are brought into the
home. Most children are not being chastened with the rod of correction in today's society.
They are taught rebellion against their parents and the Lord; they are not brought up in
the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Now we also see, as the Lord said with Abraham, that the Lord has not brought his
blessing upon the children of our nation because the fathers are not giving good gifts
unto their children. They are not giving them the good gift of a Godly upbringing.
This word rod comes from the Hebrew word shebat which means a stick for
punishing. Does that mean that you must literally spank your children? Oh yes! But not if
you can correct them with anything short of it. This word shebat also means
correction. If we are able to use any other corrective measure short of spanking, that is
most desirable. This verse doesn't mean children have to be beaten with a stick, but they
must be corrected and put in their place. Rebellion cannot be allowed to reign.
As we cited previously PRO 13:24 says, "He that spareth his rod hateth his son:
but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes." This word chasteneth is taken
from the Hebrew word muwcar which means "to chastise literally with blows or
figuratively with words [see the alternative]; hence to punish, instruct, correct,
discipline, reform, or teach restraint." That comes right out of the Hebrew
dictionary.
When I was in the Army 40 years ago, they had ten forms of company punishment. The
first was admonition. That is where we start in correcting our children. We admonish them
with the admonition of the Lord so they know that what they are doing is not according to
the Word of God. If that in itself is sufficient, we don't need to use the paddle.
Now consider that the word chasteneth means "to chastise literally with
blows or figuratively with words; hence to punish, instruct, correct, discipline, reform
or teach restraint." Instruction is a form of chastisement. Notice that one of the
good gifts we give to our children is self-discipline. We teach them restraint from things
that ought not to be, and we correct them if they don't listen. We discipline and punish
them if they refuse to obey.
Each child is different. One child may be punished most severely by seeing he has lost
your favor and that you have withheld your smile. Another child may need to be chastised
before he will receive correction. The Lord's family also needs differing means. Some are
fully corrected when the Lord withholds His presence, His smile; others will not submit to
reproof until the Lord comes with His chastening hand. These are good gifts: reproof,
correction, punishment, instruction, discipline, and the teaching of restraint.
Reproof and correction are two of the best gifts a parent can give a child. See PRO
29:15, "The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his
mother to shame." What is wisdom? "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of
wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth
for ever," PSA 111:10. What greater gift can we bestow upon our children than this?
Now the Lord says, "If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your
children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that
ask him?" MAT 7:11.
The Lord understands how we are benefited by His correction, restraint, and discipline.
"The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to
shame." And so it is with you and me in the family of God. If the Lord would leave us
to ourselves, we would bring our mother to shame. Who is our spiritual mother? It is the
church. We would bring reproach upon God's church, the bride of Christ.
Scripture teaches that one who does not discipline his child is not worthy to be called
a father. "If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons; for what son
is he whom the father chasteneth not? But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are
partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons," HEB 12:7-8. A person is not worthy of
recognition as a father if he neglects his child. Child neglect, neglecting restraint or
chastening in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, is a most horrible form of child
abuse because it has eternal consequences.
Job referred to the man as happy whom God sends correction through chastening. JOB
5:17-18 says, "Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not
thou the chastening of the Almighty." The Lord understands exactly how to correct and
where to put His finger upon us so we feel it. He knows how painful the wounds are that He
gives in the way of chastening. Now watch what Job says in the next verse. "For he
maketh sore, and bindeth up: he woundeth, and his hands make whole." Does the Lord
use corrective discipline? Oh, yes. Those afflictions are the result of His chastening
hand. His love will not allow us to continue in sin to our eternal destruction.
David referred to correction as a good gift from God in PSA 119:67-68, "Before I
was afflicted I went astray: but now have I kept thy word. [Do you see the fruits of
correction, the peaceable fruits of righteousness and the precious gift of being under the
heavenly Father's loving hand?] Thou art good, and doest good; teach me thy
statutes." That affliction is a good gift because He teaches us as an earthly father
teaches his children with corrective discipline.
Good gifts also include corrective ignoring; when a child sees you are displeased, they
see there is no smile of love upon them, and they are ignored. That is a corrective
discipline. At times it is proper to ignore children's requests so they realize they have
forfeited your favor by their guilt. If the children have disobeyed and are rebellious,
they must recognize the guilt in their conscience as coming from the Lord.
As mentioned earlier, the Lord dealt with Jacob in such a manner. Think of when Jacob
was told Joseph was alive; it was then that he realized it was the sin he had committed in
his early youth that caused twenty years of suffering under the same sin of his children.
They had lied and deceived him with their brother's coat and with a kid. It was in the
same manner he had deceived his father. Now Jacob understood his guilt. It is important
that we understand our guilt. Even though his mother had told Jacob, "Upon me be thy
curse, my son...," GEN 27:13, the Lord dealt with Jacob according to his sin.
HOS 5:14-15 says, "For I will be unto Ephraim as a lion, and as a young lion to
the house of Judah: I, even I, will tear and go away; I will take away , and none shall
rescue him. [Now see the discipline by ignoring] I will go and return to my place, till
they acknowledge their offense [till they realize what they have done and confess they are
guilty], and seek my face: in their affliction they will seek me early." In the way
of a good gift, the Lord lets us see the guilt of our sin; we must come before the Lord
and say, "Guilty, guilty." We may not gainsay or try to justify ourselves with,
"I did this, but...," it is not acceptable. Then the Lord says, "I will go
and return to my place," the mercy seat. He shows mercy after we have acknowledged
our guilt. That is another good gift the Father gives us. He withholds Himself; He ignores
us and leaves us until we acknowledge our guilt. Then we will come seeking a pardon when
we really see we are so guilty.
Jesus' teaching in MAT 7:7 says, "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye
shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth;
and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened." We must
understand this does not mean God always answers in the way and manner we would prefer. We
must not think that the Lord is going to be our servant and is bound to give answers in
the manner, time, and way we determine. The Lord knows best what correction we need as
well as what answers we need. He knows best what comforts we need, and when we need them.
If we ask God to draw one of our loved ones unto His Dear Son, we must not be surprised
if it first seems as though their rebellion against His chastening drives them further
from Him. This is something to consider. Remember how a rebellious child can scream, kick,
holler, and run. A person who has the Lord's finger put upon them to draw them close may
also react like the rebellious child. God gives His dear children what they ask, if it is
good for them. He gives us what is best for us.
One time my brother told how he felt the Lord had laid upon his heart to pray that our
father would be drawn closer to the Lord. About two months later father was in the
hospital with a diagnosis of possible cancer. My brother began to pray that the Lord would
heal him. It turned out that he was not full of cancer, but it was on that sickbed that
the Lord accomplished and answered the earnest prayer for the Lord to draw him near unto
Him. For the rest of his life, my father spoke of how the Lord had blessed him on that
sickbed. We must be careful that we do not pray against the good gifts that the Lord
sends. In that instance, He sent the sickbed for the body to heal the soul.
A wise and loving father knows that not everything a child asks for would be a good
gift. A wise father must know when to say no! Many times children ask for things which are
not good for them. Likewise the Lord knows when to say no. We must not take that Scripture
to mean that we will get everything we ask for; it is only the good gifts He will give to
us.
Often privileges which are otherwise enjoyed, must be withheld for correction or to
teach restraint. Most loving parents know this and use it. Likewise the Lord does this.
Sometimes the Lord withholds something we have prayed for and does not grant it when we
think He should. We may learn later to see that it was for the purpose of correction. He
is teaching us restraint; there is a sin in our lives that has come between us and God. He
may return to His mercy seat and send the lion to tear the flesh to teach restraint.
The fact that God often delays answering or granting what we ask does not cheapen the
meaning of "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it
shall be opened unto you," but it enriches it because He will only give good gifts.
The fact that He will not give us things which are not good for us enriches the promise.
"How much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to them that ask
him?" ROM 8:28 says, "And we know that all things work together for good to them
that love God..." We may often beg for something that the Lord will never grant
because it is not for our good.
Now let's analyze some of the good gifts which our loving heavenly Father does grant as
we read in ROM 8:30, "Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and
whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also
glorified." The good gifts our heavenly Father is looking upon is our call out of
darkness unto the marvelous light of the gospel, our sanctification from the pollution of
sin, and our justification before the bar of God's justice!
God has predestined these things for those whom He has loved from before the foundation
of the world; the things we pray for which come against God's will will not be granted. We
may pray for a lot of things He will never grant, such as prosperity in this world that
would not be good for us spiritually.
Verses 31-32 continue, "What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us,
who can be against us? [We can't even be against ourselves!] He that spared not his own
Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all
things?" All good things flow to us through the Son; it is through Christ, His
merits, His obedience and atonement that God will freely give us "all things."
All things that are pleasant? No, He gives us all things that are good for us spiritually,
for our eternal good.
Have you ever heard the illustration of the weaver? One time a man came to a weaving
room where they were working on a large rug. From underneath everything was in such
disarray. Strings went in every direction; it was total confusion. However, when he saw
the beautiful design on top of the rug, he realized the wisdom of the weaver. This is the
way it is when we see life from our side. The heavenly Weaver does not show us the
finished design of His will; He has His own good purpose. All the struggles and trials and
temptations we have to go through seem to be such a riddle. When we see God's finished
product, His purpose on the end, then we see the beauty of every stitch that wove the
fabric of our life.
We may never say God has not heard our prayer. However, an immediate answer would not
always be a good gift. It is not like flipping on a light switch and there is the Lord. He
does not answer when it is not wise. JAM 1:16-18 says, "Do not err, my beloved
brethren. Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the
Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning. Of his own will
begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his
creatures."
You see, there is perfection because God is perfect. We are evil, but we know how to
give good gifts to our children. See how much more our heavenly Father, because of His
perfection, gives good and perfect gifts. "Of his own will begat he us with the word
of truth." We must understand that the Lord wants us to know His truth.
God's good gifts are not always a matter of prosperity; they are more likely to be seen
in His correction and discipline. Many people prosper in this world; they have tremendous
wealth, but that is not always where we see His good gifts. We must also look at His
correction and discipline to see His good gifts. In JOB 12:6 we read, "The
tabernacles of robbers prosper, and they that provoke God are secure [in this world]; into
whose hand God bringeth abundantly." Why? They have received their portion in this
life. They are wicked, thieves, and robbers, and yet they seem so secure.
We must understand that prosperity in this world is not a sure token of God's favor.
The parable of the rich man teaches this principle in LUK 16:25, "But Abraham said,
Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and likewise Lazarus
evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented."
God seldom gives prosperity in this world to His people; prosperity by itself is not a
good gift. "And having food and raiment let us be therewith content. But they that
will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts,
which drown men in destruction and perdition. For the love of money is the root of all
evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced
themselves through with many sorrows," 1TI 6:8-10.
Job understood that God's choicest gift is His restraining grace. "Wherefore do
the wicked live, become old, yea, are mighty in power? Their seed is established in their
sight with them, and their offspring before their eyes. Their houses are safe from fear, neither
is the rod of God upon them," JOB 21:7-9. God's rod is chastening. Job
understood that God's restraining hand, the chastening hand of God, was one of His good
gifts. He saw that the wicked didn't have it.
Job saw how those who prosper in this world without any restraint from God's tender
Fatherly hand had no desire after God. JOB 21:14-15 says, "Therefore they say unto
God, Depart from us; for we desire not the knowledge of thy ways. What is the Almighty,
that we should serve him? and what profit should we have, if we pray unto him?" They
are questioning what they would gain. They have everything now, and since they are rich,
they only look for any profit they might gain. God never brought His reproving hand upon
them, therefore they did not desire Him.
God's dear children have a covetous heart by nature, but God will not allow them to
prosper in this life to the destruction of their soul. Oh yes, we sometimes covet earthly
prosperity. We labor with the sweat of our brows to become prosperous, but God will not
give us the type of prosperity that would bring us to eternal destruction.
GEN 13:10-13 tells us, "And Lot lifted up his eyes, and beheld all the plain of
Jordan, that it was well watered every where...Then Lot chose him all the plain of
Jordan...and they separated themselves the one from the other...and Lot dwelled in the
cities of the plain, and pitched his tent toward Sodom. But the men of Sodom were wicked
and sinners before the LORD exceedingly." Abraham and Lot separated and chose
different paths. Lot was one of God's dear children, but he coveted prosperity. He allowed
himself to commingle with the people of Sodom. The Lord allowed him to prosper there for
only a short time, and then destroyed it all. Sodom was destroyed, but Lot and his wife
were taken out by the hand of an angel sent by the Lord.
When God sends hardships and sore trials in our lives it is not always a sign of His
disfavor. The Lord loved Lot. Removing Lot from Sodom was a sign of His love. The token of
the good gift that God gave to Lot was the destruction of what was destroying him.
Abraham, the father of the faithful obeyed God's command and left his country, kindred,
and his father's house to go to the land of Canaan. What was the first thing Abraham
experienced after he had obeyed and left everything to go to Canaan? There was a famine in
the land! Why? As recorded in GEN 12:7-10, Abraham went, but he strayed from the place of
God's fellowship by venturing beyond this place toward Egypt.
This famine was not only a sign of God's displeasure with Abraham for leaving the place
of God's fellowship to venture toward Egypt, but it was also to try his faith to see if
his heart was set on earthly riches or on the Lord his God. In that same chapter we read
how Abraham was rich with much gold and cattle. What was his heart set on? This was the
Lord's test. All of God's people are not in poverty. Some of God's people are very rich,
but their hearts are not set upon their wealth.
If our business prospers, it may or may not be a sign of God's favor. The Lord often
sends a spiritual famine with temporal prosperity. We must examine our hearts. If we find
our heart in spiritual famine, then we must start looking at the source. We may find that
we are putting ourselves in the place of the rich man, having our good things in this life
because our hearts are set upon them. That is what we must check. Does it cause spiritual
poverty? It will if our hearts are set on the things of this world. We must check our
attitudes and the condition of our hearts.
Jesus said in His parable of the rich man in LUK 16:24-25, "And he cried and said,
Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus [one whom he had despised in his
lifetime], that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am
tormented in this flame. [The man was asking a small thing, one drop of cold water.] But
Abraham said, Son, remember that thou in thy lifetime receivedst thy good things, and
likewise Lazarus evil things: but now he is comforted, and thou art tormented."
The rich man saw what Job realized, that the Lord gave abundantly into the hands of the
robbers. They had their good things in this life while Lazarus was in want, "but now
he is comforted, and thou art tormented." With all his excess, the rich man did not
realize how he had tormented Lazarus who never received so much as the crumbs from his
table, but now neither could Lazarus bring him one drop of water for his tongue.
God's good gift of correcting the son whom He loves is to remove that great gulf of sin
and work repentance in his heart. Now see what Christ used to illustrate why Lazarus could
not bring a drop of cold water. It is very important that we understand this. LUK 16:26
says, "And beside all this, between us and you there is a great gulf fixed [his
unrepented sin!]: so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot; neither can they
pass to us, that would come from thence." That great gulf of sin was spanned by the
Lord Jesus Christ for His people; but for those outside of Christ it is unpardoned sin
that stands between them and who would be willing to bring that drop of cold water.
The rich man was in torment with the gulf of sin standing between him and the place of
eternal rest. Do you see the good gift of our heavenly Father? For those whom He has loved
from eternity He removes that gulf in this lifetime. He gave the gift of His own Son to
take away their sins by the blood of His cross. He takes away unrepented sins by working
repentance and bringing us as needy sinners before Christ, seeking a pardon for our souls.
Then the rich man pleaded for his five brothers; he asked to have Lazarus sent to warn
them. Look, that poor man in hell didn't ask that he himself cross over, but he wanted
Lazarus to cross that gulf to warn his brothers. However, he was not allowed to do it.
"Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my
father's house: For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also
come into this place of torment," LUK 16:27-28. LUK 16:31 answers, "And he said
unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though
one rose from the dead."
See what happened literally when Jesus did raise a man named Lazarus from the dead. Did
it bring those who were rich within themselves to repentance? "Much people of the
Jews therefore knew that he was there: and they came not for Jesus' sake only, but that
they might see Lazarus also, whom he had raised from the dead. But the chief priests
consulted that they might put Lazarus also to death; Because that by reason of him many of
the Jews went away, and believed on Jesus," JOH 12:9-11.
See what happened when Jesus came out of the grave. "...some of the watch came
into the city, and shewed unto the chief priests all the things that were done. And when
they were assembled with the elders, and had taken counsel, they gave large money unto the
soldiers, Saying, Say ye, His disciples came by night, and stole him away while we slept.
And if this come to the governor's ears, we will persuade him, and secure you. So they
took the money, and did as they were taught: and this saying is commonly reported among
the Jews until this day," MAT 28:11.
Many times a family must move from one area to another so they can come under a sound
ministry or school for their children. My parents are an example. They were on a rented
farm. The lease was up and could not be renewed. They found a beautiful farm, but they
turned it down because they knew it would not be good for their children. It was too close
to a town which did not have a school based on Godly principles. They chose another place
that had much poorer buildings and soil, but it had a small country school where they
could hire a teacher with Godly principles. See where their priorities lay. The Lord made
the alternative choice available to them. We must consider the possibility of spiritual
famine when we make our choices. They took the lesser to have a richer spiritual place for
their children. Temporal values may not be the first consideration.
God's dealings in His providence are to draw our hearts out of the world and into His
Word so our hearts become settled in the Word of God. David saw the preciousness of God's
leadings in providence which drew him to love God's Word. See how the Word of God was
David's desire in PSA 119:65-72, "Thou hast dealt well with thy servant, O LORD,
according unto thy word. Teach me good judgment and knowledge: for I have believed thy
commandments. Before I was afflicted I went astray: but now have I kept thy word. Thou art
good, and doest good; teach me thy statutes. The proud have forged a lie against me: but I
will keep thy precepts with my whole heart. Their heart is as fat as grease; but I delight
in thy law. It is good for me that I have been afflicted; that I might learn thy statutes.
[The law of love] The law of thy mouth is better unto me than thousands of gold and
silver." Do you see the value David placed upon the statutes of God and His law of
love instilled in his heart? God's Word was far more precious to his soul than thousands
of silver and gold.
We must learn to examine all our motives in the light of God's revealed will to see if
they flow from the fountain of the law of love. See that connecting word in the next verse
after our text! "Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do
to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets," MAT 7:12. See
the precious harmony there is between this and what Jesus said in MAT 22:40, "On
these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets." In other words, it is the
law of love; the golden rule demands that we treat our fellow man with love, denying
ourselves, and preferring others ahead of ourselves.
Love is the end or purpose of the law as we see in 1TI 1:5, "Now the end of the
commandment is charity out of a pure heart, and of a good conscience, and of faith
unfeigned." That is the intent and purpose of the law. Everything hinges upon the
word love. When God's blessing is withheld or we see His loving hand in providence,
we must not immediately see it as a token of His disfavor, but we must stop to examine our
motives to see whether God is trying our faith or sending correction.
Asaph was envious of the foolish when he saw the prosperity of the wicked, but when he
was in the sanctuary, when he examined his motives, he saw their end. When his
understanding was opened, he saw God's precious gift of correction and restraint. PSA
73:22-24 tells us, "So foolish was I, and ignorant: I was as a beast before thee.
Nevertheless I am continually with thee: thou hast holden me by my right hand. Thou shalt
guide me with thy counsel, and afterward receive me to glory." Asaph saw the precious
gift of the Father was in the central theme of love.
Our text says in MAT 7:11, "If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts
unto your children, how much more shall your Father which is in heaven give good things to
them that ask him?" Many live in a spiritual famine because they ask not, and
therefore receive not, they seek not, and therefore find not, they do not knock and
therefore do not obtain entrance.
We are not only to open our mouth in prayer, but we are to open it wide as we see in
PSA 81:10. "I am the LORD thy God, which brought thee out of the land of Egypt: open
thy mouth wide, and I will fill it." The Lord shows us what He has delivered us from,
telling us to look at all the things He has done for us. He has delivered us many times;
remember them.
We also read in JOH 15:7, "If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall
ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you." The Lord tells us that if we will
come and seek Him, we shall find Him. If we will knock, He will open because if we who are
evil can give good gifts, then "how much more shall your Father which is in heaven
give good things to them that ask him?" Amen. |